Current mood:
disgusted
This message is to homewreckers.Did u think about the kids when your distroying there family and wrecking there home?What hurts the kids more the moms keeping them away from the dad and his new slut or the fact there dad has left them?Which one does the most damage.Its easy to point fingers and make the mother the bad guy but the slut that breaks up the family never sees it that way now do thay?Every situation is different when the dad leaves and does nothing to help support his kids till he is made to in court then enough said.And if his offends u then you must be a homewrecker.
i'm so sorry for what happened to you.ive never ben with a married man.i am married myself. my husband hasn't given me this heartache but i can imagine.while you want to be angry at her,the most of the blame is his.though she should've backed away when she learned of you and the kids,it was him who never should've strayed from you and the kids you share.
i know you're in alot of pain but despite all of that,you should allow him to see the kids. my mother took me away from my dad when she divorced him and i hate her for it. he sent child support anyway but the money can't replace a dad.you love your kids,don't put them in the middle of this.they are hurt too because he broke the family but it had nothing to do with his love for them.even if he hasn't sent money for you to care for them. if he's a bad father,least they'll learn that but it's not up to you to make that choice for them unless he's dangerous while they are with him because you can find a new man to love but you only have one chance to keep your childrens respect.
do the right thing ok,i know i don't know him,you or the whore but i know what i'm talking about when i tell you to denie the kids of their dad over this alone is wong.i hope you find happieness soon,in the mean time be the bigger,better person.