I am 22 and a wife and a mom and I am scared shitless that I am going to fuck it all up. A freind once said that I have the social intelligence of a fourteen year old. He was right. That was about two years ago and I like to think that I have grown and learned since then, but how are you supposed to know something like that. How do you measure wisdom and experience. My life right now is perfect. I, on the other hand, am not. I don't think you can measure it by the circumstances of your life. Life has a way of throwing curves at you and sometimes even the best of people have a hard time navigating them. I just hope I have learned enough to teach my daughter what is right, what is wrong, and how to handle herself when that choice is no longer clear.
Hun...no one is perfect, but you will be/are a great mother! I know I don't have kids and am not married and blah blah blah...but I have the girls to take care of and stuff, and it is so normal to be a complete wreck for your first child. Vern felt like my first child...and I was alway freaking out...but everything turned out great..as it will for you. Don't forget! If you have questions or need help there are always people around for you =D
Much love cuz!