I am 22 and a wife and a mom and I am scared shitless that I am going to fuck it all up. A freind once said that I have the social intelligence of a fourteen year old. He was right. That was about two years ago and I like to think that I have grown and learned since then, but how are you supposed to know something like that. How do you measure wisdom and experience. My life right now is perfect. I, on the other hand, am not. I don't think you can measure it by the circumstances of your life. Life has a way of throwing curves at you and sometimes even the best of people have a hard time navigating them. I just hope I have learned enough to teach my daughter what is right, what is wrong, and how to handle herself when that choice is no longer clear.